Snowiest January Ever
The life and times of a Chinese American. Born a Jersey boy, lived the expat life, attended boarding school (Lawrenceville), converted to a frat boy (Sigma Pi), got an MBA (Columbia), returned to Shanghai China, and back to the East Coast trying to carve out an identity and life as an Asian American twin dad (gulp) in the midst of a "tertial/mid life crisis" ©
It has been a snowy winter so far and we are not finished with January. I have been around for 32 years and never have I seen lightning or heard thunder while it is snowing but so far this year I have witnessed this phenomenom twice already. Last night I had to fight the bayamo winds to make it home from the ferry terminal. The sleet and squall was so strong that it literally stopped me in my tracks. Luckily most of the damage was done overnight and I did not have to break out the snowboarding goggles for my morning commute. That is a picture of our apartment building the next day.
Labels: HudsonClub, Snow, Winter
We just returned from the hospital for a follow-up visit. The
post-surgery MRI showed that the tumor was completely removed and the
biopsy results were that it was a low-grade type II astrocytoma.
Although we would have preferred a type I diagnosis it is definitely
positive compared to the scarier alternatives.
Jenn is relieved to have had the 59 staples removed from her head and
continues to rest since the barrage of drugs renders her groggy and
lethargic. Luckily, as she is being tapered off some of the meds, we no
longer have to wake up every 2-3 hours which oftentimes consisted of me
holding her nose at 5 AM so that she would open her mouth to take the
pills. She's happy to be home and has been busy catching up on the DVR
and playing lots of Words with Friends on the iPad (username: LilSu).
The nurse recommended a 6 week recovery time before she would begin
to feel "normal" again and we also need several follow-up appointments
with neuro-oncologists and neurologists. Although the scariest surgical
part is behind us now, it will be a slow restoration process. This has
been eased by the outpouring of support, prayers, and positive thoughts
from everyone.
Jenn was discharged from New York Presbyterian Hospital this afternoon.
She was delighted that she was able to wash her hair although she then
began fretting over what kind of hairdo would best cover up the huge
incision across her scalp. Jenn joked that she would sport the Snooki
Poof. There was no doubt in my mind that all her neurons were firing
correctly when she wanted to make a quick stop at Burger Joint on the
way home. I double-parked the car, threw on the hazards, ran into Le
Parker Meridien and got her a cheeseburger deluxe with fries to go.
She has been resting at home now and enjoying the home-cooked food.
Unfortunately, still no biopsy results but we are keeping busy with
stocking our own little pharmacy here and the rigorous timetable of
medicines. Everything has been programmed into my Blackberry so I hope
that Outlook Calendar does not fail me.
After 13 hours in the hospital, we were finally able to see Jenn in the post-operative recovery room. It was a long day of waiting for her mother and I but we all had a good laugh when Jenn was being wheeled into surgery and her mother said "think happy thoughts, think of Calvin" which just happened to be the name of the orderly pushing her wheelchair! Of course we meant Jenn's little white Maltese dog back home but Calvin the Nurse Assistant said "yeah think of me, everything will be fine." We were fully expecting Jenn to still be knocked out especially since the nurse told us she was sleeping but when her mom and I walked in to see her, she slowly flickered her eyes open and bravely forced a small smile. She was tired and dehydrated but was able to speak and told us that her flatulent neighbor was very noisy (we indeed heard it several times). She was cognizant and able to talk although the anesthesia and painkillers eventually kicked in and she drifted in and out of consciousness. We are thankful that this was detected early, the surgery was smooth, and they were able to completely remove the glioma (tumor). Now we anxiously await the results of the pathology test.
Long story short, on November 2, 2010 after some completely unrelated doctor's visits and blood work, an MRI was ordered to look into elevated levels of prolactin protein in my wife and they discovered a 3 cm tumor in her right frontal lobe. We made the difficult decision to have it removed and the operation was scheduled for January 10. Although this was obviously shocking and stressful news, we eventually saw the blessing in disguise that it was discovered early and began a joke that Jenn was a unicorn because of the growth in her head.
Labels: Birthday, Family, HudsonClub, Jenn